
For those of you who attended our fundraiser - THANK YOU! We raised more than $1,500, which will go toward our next production, Kimberly Akimbo, opening in June.
So you know what she's doing, when she's doing it and who she's doing it with.
1.) The name of a celebrityHeather suggested Ricky Martin for our night's celebrity, and the Spooky Dog cast handled the improv well with "Livin' la Vida Loca", "Shake Your Bon-Bon" and Menudo references. (Madonna, Britney Spears and Kathy Bates were suggested celebrities during their rehearsals. I'd have loved to have seen how they handled the latter celebrity.) "Don't put that in your mouth." was the sage advice from one audience member and fit right in with the adult comedy of the show, as did the egg shaker provided by Cheri.
2.) Advice your mom would give you
3.) A personal item
The price of an affair? $9 millionI remember first reading about this in 2007. Apparently Lundquist is planning to appeal.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
(Updated Friday, March 19 - 5:18 am)
By Jennifer Fernandez
Staff Writer
GREENSBORO — A jury in Guilford County District Court this week awarded $9 million to a former Greensboro woman, agreeing that her husband’s lover ruined their marriage.
Cynthia Shackelford, 60, who now lives in Raleigh, sued Anne Lundquist in 2007 for having an affair with her husband, Allan Shackelford.
In the lawsuit, Cynthia Shackelford said her husband began an affair with Lundquist before the Shackelfords separated in April 2005. She said she and her husband were still in love when Lundquist broke up the marriage.
Cynthia Shackelford said in a telephone interview Wednesday that her husband, a Greensboro attorney at the time, met Lundquist while providing legal services for Guilford College. Lundquist was the dean of campus life at the private school.
“If you want to know the truth, I am still like in a fog,” Cynthia Shackelford said.
She said the two-day trial, which ended Tuesday, was difficult. Testimony included the private investigator detailing times that he saw her husband spending time with Lundquist, she said.
“I really loved him, and I really thought he loved me,” Cynthia Shackelford said. “I had not a clue that Allan would wander. He kept telling me 'Oh, she’s just a friend. There’s no affair. I love you.’”
Lundquist did not return a call late Wednesday afternoon. She is the dean of students at Wells College, according to the Web site of the small private school in central New York.
In 2007, she and Allan Shackelford co-authored a book through LRP Publications .
Court records show the Shackelfords’ divorce has not been finalized. Cynthia Shackelford said she believes Lundquist and her husband are still a couple.
The jury awarded Cynthia Shackelford money for alienation of affections, criminal conversation (legal speak for adultery) and intentionally or recklessly causing severe emotional distress.
North Carolina remains one of a few states that allow someone to sue the person alleged to have interfered in a marriage — called alienation of affections. More than 200 such cases are filed statewide in an average year, according to the Rosen law firm in Raleigh.
The firm cites several high-dollar cases over the years, but none near the mark of the Shackelford-Lundquist case.
In 1997, separate juries awarded $1 million in an Alamance County case and $1.2 million in a Forsyth County case.
In 2001, a jury awarded $1.4 million to a distraught husband in Mecklenburg County. On appeal, the court reversed the decision on $910,000 of the award but left about $500,000 for the husband.
Collecting money in such awards can be difficult but is not impossible, said Will Jordan, the Greensboro attorney who represented Cynthia Shackelford.
“We may not get the full $9 million, but I’m hopeful that we’ll collect a substantial sum of money,” he said. “In addition to just collecting the judgment, there’s a certain amount of validation or vindication that goes with having a jury acknowledge that you were done wrong.”
Cynthia Shackelford said she gave up teaching to raise two children and support her husband’s career. After the marriage fell apart, she moved in with friends because she couldn’t afford an apartment.
Court records show that Allan Shackelford has never paid court-ordered spousal support and faces arrest on a contempt of court charge for violating that support order.
Cynthia Shackelford, who eventually moved to Raleigh, wanted others to know about her case.
“We would like for people to respect the sanctity of marriage,” Cynthia Shackelford said. “We wanted a number high enough that it would keep other people from ... going after other married spouses.”
Contact Jennifer Fernandez at 373-7064 or jennifer.fernandez@news-record.com
The Rest Of The NightStill in need of retail therapy, I headed to the Samuel French booth and picked up 3 more scripts.
Colorado
Great Falls
Animals Out Of Paper
The Hallelujah Girls
'Til Beth Do Us Part
Romantic Poetry
Gone Missing
Out Of SternoAt 2pm I started begging Chris to release Ben so he and I could attend Tituss' keynote address. Chris finally acquiesced and by the time Ben and I arrived there was a sea of folks waiting to get in. For the first time ever, I used the power of my purple badge and Ben and I got in early. (SETC Central Staff, Dream Team, Job Squad and Pro Aud Staff have purple name badges which allows unrestricted access.) We did help usher and I worked with the hotel staff to open the airwalls to the adjoining rooms. Luckily Ben and I had saved ourselves seats in the front row; the place was packed!
Wedding Belles
Elephant Sighs